{"id":85,"date":"2012-07-19T12:53:53","date_gmt":"2012-07-19T16:53:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/?p=85"},"modified":"2012-07-19T13:14:14","modified_gmt":"2012-07-19T17:14:14","slug":"my-moms-4-letter-word","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/?p=85","title":{"rendered":"My Mom&#8217;s 4-Letter Word"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>I\u2019ve been active in JDRF (especially the JDRF Walk-For-A-Cure events) for much of my life.\u00a0 I have two \u00a0Alecia\u2019s Stem Cells teams walking this year (New York City on September 30th and Los Angeles on November 11).\u00a0 Every year, I write a letter, asking (sometimes begging) my friends and family to participate.\u00a0 There are years where writing the letter comes easily, while other years I agonize over it.\u00a0 I try to have the letter ready to go on my diaversary (June 19<sup>th<\/sup>) but this year I did a diaversary blog post instead.\u00a0 So yes, I\u2019m a little behind my own schedule.\u00a0 It got me thinking though, why JDRF?\u00a0 I have recently shared my D-blog with my family and decided to ask my Mom, about why my parents got involved specifically in JDRF. Although I was a bossy 6 year old when I was diagnosed, I\u00a0 wasn\u2019t calling the shots (Get it? Diabetes pun? Shots? Ha) so here\u2019s my Mom, filling in the blanks:<\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_86\" style=\"width: 417px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Mom-and-me.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-86\" class=\"wp-image-86 \" title=\"Mom and me\" src=\"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Mom-and-me.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"407\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Mom-and-me.jpg 847w, http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Mom-and-me-300x234.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Mom-and-me-383x300.jpg 383w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 407px) 100vw, 407px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-86\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Seriously? My Mom is gorgeous, inside and out.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 This was me pre- D.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When asked why did we get involved in JDRF?\u00a0 The answer came easily.<\/p>\n<p>Alecia, our firstborn child was diagnosed with diabetes at the age of six.\u00a0 That day, June 19, was a shockingly sad time in our lives.\u00a0 To say we were blindsided, is exactly how we felt.\u00a0 This was a child who was the picture of health, extremely bright, adorable, always cheerful and up for anything.\u00a0 Everything we had ever heard about this disease came running through our minds and we were devastated. \u00a0Fear of the unknown was stifling!<\/p>\n<p>Our endocrinologist, Dr. Robert Kaye, was most encouraging.\u00a0 He gave us the best advice which became our mantra \u2013 \u201cAlecia is a child, who happens to have diabetes, <strong>not <\/strong>a diabetic who is a child.\u201d\u00a0 That was the beginning of our journey, becoming immersed in the education of the vast world of living with diabetes.\u00a0 Dr. Kay suggested we become acquainted with JDRF.\u00a0 Through our association with them, we quickly realized we were not alone.\u00a0 JDRF became our lifeline to meet others with small children, to learn from those families who had been down this road and most importantly, we learned fact from fiction about this disease.<\/p>\n<p>We attended lectures, participated in telethons, had Alecia appear in public service announcements and I became a member of JDRF\u2019s board \u2013 ultimately running the Philadelphia Zoo walk. \u00a0We were always hoping with the funds raised through JDRF that a cure was in the wings to be realized by our precious little girl and all the others afflicted with this life altering disease.<\/p>\n<p>As years passed our daughter grew up, and we did everything possible to ensure her a normal life, participating in various activities like other kids her age.\u00a0 After college, she moved to NYC and became involved in the NYC Chapter of JDRF and has cultivated a team each year for the annual walk in which her family and friends all participate.\u00a0 The involvement with JDRF has shifted to her as an adult.<\/p>\n<p>Our memories of working along side Lee Ducat and her leadership of an all embracing foundation (JDF) now JDRF, still remain a source of inspiration. Lee fostered a community to welcome, educate, and most importantly diminish the fear factor for families.\u00a0 JDRF introduced us to other families who shared the same ultimate goal to help our kid\u2019s\u00a0lives be relatively normal until the day they discover the four letter word \u2013 CURE.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been active in JDRF (especially the JDRF Walk-For-A-Cure events) for much of my life.\u00a0 I have two \u00a0Alecia\u2019s Stem Cells teams walking this year (New York City on September 30th and Los Angeles on November 11).\u00a0 Every year, I &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/?p=85\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[15],"tags":[4,46,541,542,47,26,45,540,538,44,5,24],"class_list":["post-85","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jdrf","tag-diabetes","tag-diabetic-child","tag-diaversary","tag-doc","tag-endocrinologist","tag-fear","tag-jdf","tag-jdrf","tag-juvenile-diabetes","tag-mom","tag-t1d","tag-type-1"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2tD0n-1n","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=85"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":88,"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85\/revisions\/88"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=85"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=85"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.surfacefine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=85"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}